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Old or young, all couples relationships except for marriage are  a barter system.

We find a person who we are attracted to.  Perhaps they make us laugh, listen to our troubles, have the same likes and dislikes.  Then it is a matter of how many or what dislikes we have for them.  Do they smoke, swear, play with their ear or anything we do not like.  As we experience more good times with them, we start growing feelings for them.

Then we start considering if they are worth us spending more time with them and exposing more of who we are with each other.

Then when we think we know each other well enough, we start considering making a semi commitment to each other.  We consider the good and the bad, and we try to barter away some of the bad.

For those who are not committed or strong enough, they may consider living together
and risking the many personal physical, medical or spiritual disasters.

Many of those who thought they could get away with living together,
will never again achieve the level of relationship to be able to move on to marriage.

Marriage is seldom easy, but almost always rewarding.

What is Marriage ?  Marriage is two people who have been in a relationship and are ready to commit to helping each other
change to become the loving people that God wants them to be.


 		    PUT GOD FIRST IN YOUR MARRIAGE- Decide that you will believe God's word as the authority on the subject of marriage. Many bible have a concordance or index in the back. Look up the word marriage and get scriptures on the subject.

 


 		    Many today try to destroy the Marriage.  They try to pretend they do not know what a marriage is or try to downsize it to a social event, or social union.  A social union would be a couple announcing they are dating, or a pre engagement, or perhaps a couple going into business together.

Marriage – the first and most important institution that
                      was created by God himself at the beginning time.
 

Here are the words of Jesus Christ

’For this reason a man will leave his father and mother
and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’
So they are no longer two, but one.

Perhaps a change of how the vows should be read

Thank you Lord for putting (bride name) into my life.
(bride name) is the most important person to me, after you Lord.
I promise from this day forward I will always show my love for her
by always putting you Lord first in everything, and (bride name) second.
I give my life to you and her and ask that if I ever fail at this
that you will take my life.

This is what marriage is

 

Marriage meshes two completely different lives together into one,
which is both romantic and hilarious at the same time. You have to laugh at the many surprises that follow closely after the words,… I DO

Marriage is about doing what is best for the other person.

In the Bible, Luke 9:23 says: And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.

This is what God says to his bride, the church.
This is how we are to be in a marriage.  We are to put our wants
to the side and do what is best, or will make the other person happy. 
If your first desire is to always make the other person happy. . .
you will have a fantastic marriage.

 

    
 

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The idea of getting married is a big, big deal, so to commit yourself before God into a relationship that is "til death do us part" cannot be a commitment that is taken too lightly. However, when you involve the Christian faith in your upcoming marriage, many Christians can agree that having God's guidance from the start can turn a marriage from being a chore into being a symbol of unity before His eyes.

 

How To Propose  Marriage

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    1.  Talk to your church pastor. Before you speak to anyone about the idea of proposing for a Christian marriage, talk to your church pastor. He's probably seen many marriage come and go in his church and can give you some wealthy advice. After all, he is a man of  God who has performed many ceremonies himself in His name. Your pastor can offer the best advice there is on Christian marriage and what to expect.

  • 2.  Find a sacred, holy place where you and your soon-to-be-fiancé can be alone. Part of being in a Christian marriage is recognizing together God's great works. Rather than proposing at a party or game, think of natural wonders or even a beautiful church as a proposal site. You want your fiancé to remember this engagement fifty years from now.
    A church or nature spot are places that you can go back to.

  • 3.  Invoke the name of God in your proposal. "Will you marry me?" just won't do. Talk about how God brought her into your life. Bring up points in the Bible that show marriage at its strongest like with Noah and his wife, Mary and Joseph, etc. You can even use verses from the Song of Solomon, the Bible's book that is dedicated to a couple married in God's eyes. Bringing up God's will in your proposal gives your marriage a Christian foundation from the very beginning.

 


Marriage  is seldom easy, but almost always rewarding

 

There have been many books, studies and reports on the difference between man and woman and on marriage.  These are all rip offs on the true book on man and woman from the one who created us.  Does it not make sense to you that if you want to know about marriage, you should rely not only on the one who  created man and woman, but the one who also created Marriage, and explains his relationship to us according to marriage.

 

 

 

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   Research and studies are good to teach us things  that we do not know about.  I would like to share something that is not a study, research or hearsay, but something I know to be fact, because it is my life.

God presented me with a woman who lived several hundred miles from me.  We had lots of conversations over many months, however we never saw a picture of each other.  I had to travel to Boston to meet her.  A year later we got married.  Aside from my salvation, it was the best day of my life.  We co managed a retail store together for a couple years before i could convince her to move to South Carolina with me.  Every day was not perfect, we had many of the same complications as everyone else.  But she was always fantastic to me, she has always been the best part of my day and always will be.  I wake up many nights and watch her sleep.  She tells me always how great I am, and how lucky she is.  But it is not luck. . . I have been blessed beyond words to have her in my life.  It is like the birth of a child.  so precious, the miracle of life.

This is how I feel with her everyday.  My disappointment is any time I can not make her happy, like when she struggled with breast cancer. It was hard dealing with her cancer, however God did a perfect job of carrying us both through it. I became a Pastor July of 2011.  I have spoken with many Pastors who speak highly of their wife.  I have been told a Pastor needs a very supportive wife, so again, I am blessed for I have the wife who is perfect for me.  My wife and I like to attend the weddings together.  It is our prayer that other couples will be as happy as us with a marriage that will last them forever.

We have a great marriage, however that does not mean we agree on everything.  My wife is a very complex person, and me. . . I am the simple guy.

My wife keeps things private, and I share everything.

Many people get excited to see a famous movie star, or singer. . .

For me, my wife is my Movie Star!

So I know.  When you center your marriage around God, He will Bless your marriage.

 

Independent Baptist, ready to marry all of Gods children